I’m not even sure what else I can say about this right now. It’s hard to see, yet does help. My wife summed it up nicely:
It is hard for me to describe how I felt, finally seeing Jon’s name in stone. It was comforting, but very, very sad. I felt grateful to finally see his name engraved, but it also cut me to the quick. The marker reminded me so keenly of our loss, that Jon was never coming back.